My dad won't stop ruining my life because the people monitoring me in private don't like me posting on a problems blog.  Someone I know seems to have acted like at some point had to give up on our relationship to a degree and hand over my secretes to others to irritate me.  I can't say what he did cuz the messages keep coming more and are like stupid but seem to have terminated my relationship and her being okay, though she is in on it.